5 Tips to Manage Holiday Stress

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Aѕ thе hоlіdауѕ approach, you рrоbаblу аrе аntісіраtіng holiday рlаnѕ wіth family, trаvеlіng, and looking forward tо ѕоmе time оff from wоrk. Aѕ fun аѕ thе holidays саn bе, this аlѕо саn be a very stressful time оf the уеаr.

If уоu are a entrepreneur оr buѕіnеѕѕ оwnеr, уоu actually may еnd up wоrkіng lоngеr hours whеn уоur employees tаkе tіmе off. Thеn thеrе аrе thе hоlіdау раrtіеѕ tо plan and аttеnd, some we eagerly аntісіраtе, оthеrѕ thаt wе would wеlсоmе a bout with thе flu juѕt to hаvе аn еxсuѕе to mіѕѕ. Then thеrе’ѕ thе ѕhорріng, thе сооkіng аnd getting thе hоuѕе rеаdу fоr guеѕtѕ. Add to thаt аnу соnflісt or tеnѕіоn in уоur family and уоu hаvе a rесіре fоr a stressful hоlіdау season!

 

You саn manage your stress to уоur advantage. Kеер in mіnd that уоu аrе іn сhаrgе оf your ѕtrеѕѕ lеvеl. You decide hоw уоu wіll lеt оthеrѕ аffесt уоu. Yоu dесіdе what gets dоnе аnd whаt tо lеt go оf. Yоu determine уоur еxреrіеnсе оf the holidays.

Your mіndѕеt dеtеrmіnеѕ уоur outlook, уоur асtіоnѕ аnd your еxреrіеnсе. Dесіdіng whо аnd how you wіll bе hаѕ a trеmеndоuѕ іmрасt оn уоur hоlіdау еxреrіеnсе.

Hоlіdауѕ аrе thе tіmе оf уеаr tо seduce thе ѕеnѕеѕ and bоlѕtеr thе bоndѕ between fаmіlу аnd frіеndѕ. But even thе hаrdіеѕt оf revelers саn succumb tо hоlіdау stress. Frеt not, you weary holiday wаrrіоrѕ. Bеlоw аrе tірѕ for mаnаgіng holiday ѕtrеѕѕ. Thеѕе hоlіdау stress tірѕ іnсludе wауѕ tо ѕtау оrgаnіzеd, ways tо volunteer уоur tіmе, dесоrаtе, ѕhор, cook, and еvеn write cards – all thе while mаkіng уоur hеаlth аnd hарріnеѕѕ top рrіоrіtіеѕ.

Tіmе Mаnаgеmеnt Tірѕ to Mіnіmіzе Strеѕѕ: Stress аnd dерrеѕѕіоn often gо hаnd in hаnd. It іѕ еѕtіmаtеd thаt 10 реrсеnt оf thе population experiences dерrеѕѕіоn trіggеrеd bу ѕtrеѕѕ. You саn mіnіmіzе thеѕе unwаntеd effects bу соntrоllіng tіmе ѕреnt on holiday chores.

5 Tірѕ tо Manage Hоlіdау Stress

Sеt lіmіtѕ.

Don’t trу tо do еvеrуthіng іn one dау or оnе wееkеnd. Mар оut your hоlіdау ѕсhеdulе, decide hоw muсh уоu can dо at аnу given time and ѕtісk wіth іt. Dоn’t forget tо ask fоr hеlр if needed.

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Tаkе tіmе fоr уоurѕеlf.

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It’s еаѕу tо gеt burdеned wіth a tо-dо list but whіlе writing down your Tо-Dоѕ, rеmеmbеr tо реnсіl іn tіmе for rеlаxаtіоn and dаіlу rеѕt. Cоmрlеtе a сrоѕѕwоrd оr Sudoku рuzzlе. Take a walk, a nар оr a lоng, hot bubble bаth. Thеѕе little mеntаl аnd рhуѕісаl brеаkѕ аrе ԛuісk ісk-mе-uрѕ thаt wіll rеjuvеnаtе уоu.

Help оthеrѕ.

If уоu hаvе the tіmе, volunteer. If уоu hаvе thе money, cut a check. Hеlріng thоѕе less fоrtunаtе than you can lift уоur ѕріrіtѕ and rеmіnd you whаt thе holidays аrе about. Suggеѕtеd organizations іnсludе the Arthritis Fоundаtіоn’ѕ Jingle Bеll Run, thе Mаrіnеѕ Tоуѕ fоr Tots Fоundаtіоn, Mеаlѕ оn Whееlѕ, оr еvеn helping the Red Cross wіth thе hurrісаnе victims. Your аvаіlаblе tіmе аnd/оr mоnеу will dісtаtе whether your bеnеvоlеnt еffоrtѕ are small or grаndіоѕе.

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Mаkе соmрrоmіѕеѕ.

If time іѕ getting thе best of уоu, skip thе саrd wrіtіng. Instead, multitask your hоlіdау wеll-wіѕhеѕ. Grаb уоur hands-free hеаdрhоnе аnd саll уоur friends tо wіѕh thеm happy holidays. Tаlkіng to frіеndѕ аnd fаmіlу wіll bооѕt your spirits. If уоu ѕtіll wаnt tо ѕеnd cards, get рrіntеd оnеѕ tо ѕаvе tіmе.

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Dоn’t сrеаtе a fіnаnсіаl burdеn.

Dоn’t cause added worry аnd stress by overspending. Sіmрlіfу gіft gіvіng. Aѕk fаmіlу members tо dо a grаb-bаg gift exchange. Or fоrеgо thе gіft еxсhаngе аltоgеthеr. Enjоу lеѕѕ еxреnѕіvе entertainment by driving to dесоrаtеd hоuѕеѕ or going to frее concerts.

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Fіnаllу, juѕt rеmеmbеr to do what you саn to prevent stress from wrecking уоur hоlіdауѕ. Rеmеmbеr tо ѕtор and rеѕt, еѕресіаllу at thе fіrѕt ѕіgn that уоu’vе overdone іt. Bе ѕurе to еnlіѕt hеlр іf nееdеd. Tаkіng tіmе to rеlаx, whеthеr іt’ѕ lіѕtеnіng tо muѕіс оr ѕоаkіng іn a hot tub, wіll hеlр уоu better cope wіth thе hоlіdауѕ. And аbоvе аll, hаvе a hарру, healthful аnd blessed hоlіdау season.

 

 

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The Powerful Black Women: Part 3

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Part 1 of this discussion of Guilt and Shame concentrated on reasons why women harbor guilt and shame which included: Past Experiences of Abuse or Trauma; Feelings that she has to be all things for everyone; and being Physically and Mentally oppressed.  These reasons keep women trapped which will ultimately jeopardize her health.

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Part 2 of this discussion was reasons to Let Go of Guilt and Shame that increases the risk for women to experience morbidity problems of: Anxiety; Depressed Moods; Self-loathing.  Holding on to guilt and shame can cause unwanted health concerns.  Guilt and Shame may appear that she is barring all things and keeping it all together to the outside world, but all the while jeopardizing her physical and mental health.

Finally Part 3: The Break-Through

There is a Misconception of Black Women that states:  To be Strong Black women suggests a superhuman trait rendering Black women capable and obligated to take on and handle all the burdens of the world (Walton & Oyewuwo-Gassikia, 2017).

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Strong Black women have gone through some stuff…

 The Powerful Black Woman

  • Recognizes that she has limits:
    • May not have the answers, out of control, emotionally spent, and powerless;
  • Recognizes when to solicit help from others:
    • Enlists a support system (family, friends, faith community, social resources);
  • Takes responsibility for her actions and completes the tasks:
    • Sets clear boundaries;
  • Finally, she shares her story!
    • Helping others by being transparent.

 

 

2 CORINTHIANS 13:9

We are glad whenever we are weak but you are strong;

and our prayer is that you may be fully restored.

 

Peace and Blessings!

By:  Kristen Pettaway, MA LPC Liberty University |

Clinical Case Manager Intern Destination Greatness, PLLC

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Office Sites

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References

Walton, Q. L., & Oyewuwo-Gassikia, O. B. (2017). The case for #blackgirlmagic: Application  of a strengths-based, intersectional practice framework for working with black women with depression. Journal of Women and Social Work, 32(4), 461-475. doi:10.1177/0886109917712213

3 Things to Remember When Enough Doesn’t Seem Like Enough

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Have you ever felt like everything you do just falls short of whatever it is you are working towards? If you said no you are more than likely lying and it is time you accept your failures. It is normal to feel disappointed after a failure, all humans experience this feeling of dissatisfaction. While it is perfectly normal to feel disappointed when you experience failure, repeated feelings of disappointment over time can lead to stress, anxiety, which can then lead to depression.

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There are a few things to remember when you feel like what you are doing isn’t enough.

 

 

 

  1. Think back on all your success. As humans, we tend to focus on the negative things when something goes wrong and forget everything we have done right. By thinking back on your successes after a failure will help you remain focus that you can and will accomplish the goal you are trying to achieve.

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  1. Do not compare yourself. Every human is unique and goes through different trials and tribulations. Your best friend may excel at something the first try, whereas it takes you a few times to have success. And vice versa. NO two humans are the same, so stop comparing your failures and successes to other people’s.

 

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  1. Remind yourself to get back up. People tend to stop trying to do something after a few failures. Giving up seems like the easy way out, but really it is the lazy way out. Always remember, no matter how hard you fall, how you get up is what others remember.

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Hopefully you can keep these three tips in the back of your mind when you are feeling like enough isn’t enough. Regardless if it is a failed relationship, failed test, you got fired, etc. remembering these three things when you feel like your enough is not enough will aid you in positively enhancing your mental well-being.

 

 

Keep on, keeping on.

 

Katheryn Burton

Clemson University, BS Psychology ’18

Case Management Intern

Destination Greatness, PLLC

 

http://www.destinationgreatnesspllc.org/

 

About Destination Greatness

Destination Greatness is a mental health and substance abuse psychotherapy agency dedicated to assisting individuals and families in maximizing their level of functioning on all life domains in pursuit of Greatness. Destination Greatness provide individuals and families with the opportunity to live more fulfilling and meaningful lives. Destination Greatness strives to enrich each individual and family through greater self-awareness, focus on strengths, and belief in a greater destiny.

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4 Tips: Mental Health and the Entrepreneur

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Entrepreneurs are bold and audacious people pursing their passions.  The day to day activities of the entrepreneur are often solo.  Most start-ups are one-person machines.  The contrast between leadership and being alone in the journey can often leave entrepreneurs overly stressed.

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A start-up is exciting and fills the entrepreneur with purpose and passion.  However, it can quickly lead to depression, leaving many entrepreneurs confused.  Shouldn’t turning your passion into a business fill you with energy and happiness?

The feelings of isolation can be like a slow and steady pain that grows overtime and saps entrepreneurs from the inside out especially when their mental health needs are neglected.

Releasing stress after work with co-workers, a spouse or anyone that can relate is a great way to unwind.  The challenge with many entrepreneurs is that the day-to-day activities aren’t normal.  Most people can’t relate or have no idea what you’re talking about when you try to vent.  It’s difficult to explain and can be even more taxing to have to lay the groundwork to talk about an issue you’re having.

My challenge for all my fellow entrepreneurs is to take control of your mental health. Your success depends on it.

4 Mental Wellness Tips for the Entrepreneur

  1. Engage in Self-Care.
  2. Surround Yourself with Like-Minded People.
  3. Complete a personal and business inventory.
  4. Seek professional help.

 

Schedule your therapy or coaching session today. 

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About The Author

 

I help entrepreneurs unleash their greatness by improving their mental health and taking a holistic approach to entrepreneurship. I also work with individuals feeling stuck, depressed, experiencing grief, and feeling angry due to life stressors. My passion is to empower my clients on their journey of elevation and transformation by shifting their mindsets, turning their pain into purpose, and creating their Greatness blueprint.

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Forgiveness: A Key to Happiness

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One of the hardest things to do for many people is forgive those who have wronged them in someway. Regardless if it was a little spat or something more serious, not forgiving someone can cause you more stress than the actual problem.

By forcing yourself to be mad and upset with this person, you are using energy in your everyday life that could be used doing something more positive, like laughing more.

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I know there are things that cannot be forgotten. However, I do think that if people forgave others more, then people  as a whole  would be happier. No, I am not suggesting letting these people whom you have probably cut out of your life back in, nor am I suggesting you become best friends with this person again.

Sometimes, forgiving someone who has wronged you in the past, is more difficult than actually moving on. By forgiving this person you are letting go of a negative energy that you do not need. By letting go you are creating more space in your life for happiness, so go on forgive, but you don’t have to forget.

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Keep on, keeping on.

 

Katheryn Burton

Clemson University, BS Psychology ’18

Case Management Intern

Destination Greatness, PLLC

 

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About Destination Greatness

Destination Greatness is a mental health and substance abuse psychotherapy agency dedicated to assisting individuals and families in maximizing their level of functioning on all life domains in pursuit of Greatness. Destination Greatness provide individuals and families with the opportunity to live more fulfilling and meaningful lives. Destination Greatness strives to enrich each individual and family through greater self-awareness, focus on strengths, and belief in a greater destiny.

It’s Time to Stand-Up and Speak-Out

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By: Kristen Pettaway, MA LPC Liberty University | Clinical Case Manager Intern Destination Greatness, PLLC

Women Stand Up

Stand UpSerious business!  There has been an enormous amount of conversation lately about sexual harassment and sexual violence.  Many of the violators have gotten away with this behavior for years.  It has now come to light as many public figures have decided to take a stand and speak out against harassment in the workplace.  I just want to take this opportunity to shine some light on what happens to the individual who may not have a voice to stand-up and speak-out against their perpetrator.

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Statistics reveal that the highest rates of victimized children are from the African American community.  The effects from such maltreatment can lead to both short-term and long-term consequences on the individual’s mental health.  History of sexual violence and sexual misconduct against African American women in their childhood and adolescence may result in depression, trauma, and suicidal thoughts even successful completion of suicide.

Group DiscussionThis type of behavior should not be tolerated and should not be acceptable in our workplaces nor in our communities.  We must give a voice to the voiceless who continue to struggle through situations that cause them physical and mental harm.  This is a call to action to stand-up and speak-out against sexual predator behavior, sexual violence, sexual harassment, sexual violations and sexual misconduct of any kind.

Until next time, remember the minds of young women are at state!

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Reference

Vinson, E. S., & Oser, C. B. (2016). Risk and protective factors for suicidal ideation in African American women with a history of sexual violence as a minor. Violence Against Women, 22(14), 1770–1787. doi:10.1177/1077801216632614

3 Things to Remember When Enough Doesn’t Seem Like Enough

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Have you ever felt like everything you do just falls short of whatever it is you are working towards? If you said no you are more than likely lying and it is time you accept your failures. It is normal to feel disappointed after a failure, all humans experience this feeling of dissatisfaction. While it is perfectly normal to feel disappointed when you experience failure, repeated feelings of disappointment over time can lead to stress, anxiety, which can then lead to depression.

enough

 

There are a few things to remember when you feel like what you are doing isn’t enough.

 

 

 

  1. Think back on all your success. As humans, we tend to focus on the negative things when something goes wrong and forget everything we have done right. By thinking back on your successes after a failure will help you remain focus that you can and will accomplish the goal you are trying to achieve.

 success

  1. Do not compare yourself. Every human is unique and goes through different trials and tribulations. Your best friend may excel at something the first try, whereas it takes you a few times to have success. And vice versa. NO two humans are the same, so stop comparing your failures and successes to other people’s.

 

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  1. Remind yourself to get back up. People tend to stop trying to do something after a few failures. Giving up seems like the easy way out, but really it is the lazy way out. Always remember, no matter how hard you fall, how you get up is what others remember.

standing 

Hopefully you can keep these three tips in the back of your mind when you are feeling like enough isn’t enough. Regardless if it is a failed relationship, failed test, you got fired, etc. remembering these three things when you feel like your enough is not enough will aid you in positively enhancing your mental well-being.

 

 

Keep on, keeping on.

 

Katheryn Burton

Clemson University, BS Psychology ’18

Case Management Intern

Destination Greatness, PLLC

 

 

About Destination Greatness

Destination Greatness is a mental health and substance abuse psychotherapy agency dedicated to assisting individuals and families in maximizing their level of functioning on all life domains in pursuit of Greatness. Destination Greatness provide individuals and families with the opportunity to live more fulfilling and meaningful lives. Destination Greatness strives to enrich each individual and family through greater self-awareness, focus on strengths, and belief in a greater destiny.

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7 Signs of Bullying

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By: Kristen Pettaway, MA LPC Liberty University | Clinical Case Manager Intern Destination Greatness, PLLC

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Male Bully

Bullying is a form of hostile aggression of an imbalance of power where the one doing the bullying presents as a more powerful person or group attacking than the less powerful one.  Bullying behavior is intended to annoy or harm the victim and occurs repeatedly over time.

 

Cyber Bully

Bullying can be in the form of verbal (i.e. name-calling, or threats), psychological (i.e. spreading rumors or exclusion) physical (i.e. kicking, hitting, or taunting).  Bullying can be done directly or indirectly at schools in the classroom, hallway, playground; and sometimes anonymously through email, and text messages, and through social media (i.e. Facebook,                                                                                           Instagram, chat rooms, etc.).

School girl Bullies

Bullying can present in many ways but maintains the same essential mean-spiritedness of dominance over others through hostile means, and no empathy for the victim.  Bullying is widespread and most likely to occur in middle school, but bullying can start as early as in late elementary school and extend into high school. Bullying victims, as well as those who bully, are usually male.  However, the population of female bullying has increased in recent years with females using relational aggression through the avenue of social media.

7 Signs of bullying include:

Depression                                                    Hopelessness

Feelings of isolation                                    Loss of friendships

High levels of anxiety                                 Unhappiness

Self-injury and/or thoughts of suicide

 

Workplace Bully

Bullying is not only a problem for children and adolescents but adults can experience bullying as well.  Often times bullying for adults may occur in the workplace and can affect them in the same manner.

 

Recognizing the signs is the first step to combat bullying behavior.  The best way to stop bullying is to tell someone and to bring it to light.  Bullying can be stopped and help is available.

Until next time reflect on this!Workplace Stats

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5 Tips to Overcome The Monday Blues

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By: Kristen Pettaway, MA LPC Liberty University | Clinical Case Manager Intern Destination Greatness, PLLC

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Have you heard of the Monday blues?  The Monday blues may be triggered by returning to the routine of life after experiencing an awesome weekend.  Other Monday blues can be triggered by not obtaining enough sunlight.  It happens during the cold winter months when the days are shorter and we stay indoors longer.

The Monday blues can happen to anyone at any time.  Students working on a school paper all weekend without taking a break, a stay at home mother with no adult interactions, the retired person with nothing to do, even the elderly experience the Monday blues.

The Monday blues are common as life becomes mundane.  However, if the Monday blues last for several days or even several weeks then you may be experiencing depression.  Depression can also happen to anyone at any time.  If you are unable to shake the sad, blue, drab, low-spirited feelings, or experience feelings or thoughts of suicide, you should seek professional help.

The most important thing to do is to avoid falling deeper into depression by withdrawing from the world.  Even though it may be difficult to resist becoming isolated, the best medicine for depression is to get out and to get active. Hebrews 10:24-25 reminds us to consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another and all the more as you see the Day approaching.  Look to the Lord and seek His face always (1 Chronicles 16:11) and stay in fellowship with others for encouragement.

Finally, to help combat depression individuals should eat clean healthy foods, maintain a regular exercise program, let friends and family help where they can, stay connected, and stay inspired.  Individuals experiencing Major Depression may also need the assistance of medication.  A healthy mind, body and spirit help are tools to combat bouts of depression.

Until next time aim for your Destiny!

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Destination Greatness is a mental health and substance abuse psychotherapy agency dedicated to assisting individuals and families in maximizing their level of functioning on all life domains in pursuit of Greatness. Destination Greatness provides individuals and families with the opportunity to live more fulfilling and meaningful lives. Destination Greatness strives to enrich each individual and family through greater self-awareness, focus on strengths, and belief in a greater destiny.

http://www.destinationgreatnesspllc.org

 

References

Bible Gateway. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.biblegateway.com/

growing4life.net. (2017, September 26). Stormy blue sky. Retrieved from Bing.com: https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=stormy+blue+sky&qpvt=stormy+blue+sky

 

5 Tips to Manage Holiday Stress

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Aѕ thе hоlіdауѕ approach, you рrоbаblу аrе аntісіраtіng holiday рlаnѕ wіth family, trаvеlіng, and looking forward tо ѕоmе time оff from wоrk. Aѕ fun аѕ thе holidays саn bе, this аlѕо саn be a very stressful time оf the уеаr.

If уоu are a entrepreneur оr buѕіnеѕѕ оwnеr, уоu actually may еnd up wоrkіng lоngеr hours whеn уоur employees tаkе tіmе off. Thеn thеrе аrе thе hоlіdау раrtіеѕ tо plan and аttеnd, some we eagerly аntісіраtе, оthеrѕ thаt wе would wеlсоmе a bout with thе flu juѕt to hаvе аn еxсuѕе to mіѕѕ. Then thеrе’ѕ thе ѕhорріng, thе сооkіng аnd getting thе hоuѕе rеаdу fоr guеѕtѕ. Add to thаt аnу соnflісt or tеnѕіоn in уоur family and уоu hаvе a rесіре fоr a stressful hоlіdау season!

 

You саn manage your stress to уоur advantage. Kеер in mіnd that уоu аrе іn сhаrgе оf your ѕtrеѕѕ lеvеl. You decide hоw уоu wіll lеt оthеrѕ аffесt уоu. Yоu dесіdе what gets dоnе аnd whаt tо lеt go оf. Yоu determine уоur еxреrіеnсе оf the holidays.

Your mіndѕеt dеtеrmіnеѕ уоur outlook, уоur асtіоnѕ аnd your еxреrіеnсе. Dесіdіng whо аnd how you wіll bе hаѕ a trеmеndоuѕ іmрасt оn уоur hоlіdау еxреrіеnсе.

Hоlіdауѕ аrе thе tіmе оf уеаr tо seduce thе ѕеnѕеѕ and bоlѕtеr thе bоndѕ between fаmіlу аnd frіеndѕ. But even thе hаrdіеѕt оf revelers саn succumb tо hоlіdау stress. Frеt not, you weary holiday wаrrіоrѕ. Bеlоw аrе tірѕ for mаnаgіng holiday ѕtrеѕѕ. Thеѕе hоlіdау stress tірѕ іnсludе wауѕ tо ѕtау оrgаnіzеd, ways tо volunteer уоur tіmе, dесоrаtе, ѕhор, cook, and еvеn write cards – all thе while mаkіng уоur hеаlth аnd hарріnеѕѕ top рrіоrіtіеѕ.

Tіmе Mаnаgеmеnt Tірѕ to Mіnіmіzе Strеѕѕ: Stress аnd dерrеѕѕіоn often gо hаnd in hаnd. It іѕ еѕtіmаtеd thаt 10 реrсеnt оf thе population experiences dерrеѕѕіоn trіggеrеd bу ѕtrеѕѕ. You саn mіnіmіzе thеѕе unwаntеd effects bу соntrоllіng tіmе ѕреnt on holiday chores.

5 Tірѕ tо Manage Hоlіdау Stress

Sеt lіmіtѕ.

Don’t trу tо do еvеrуthіng іn one dау or оnе wееkеnd. Mар оut your hоlіdау ѕсhеdulе, decide hоw muсh уоu can dо at аnу given time and ѕtісk wіth іt. Dоn’t forget tо ask fоr hеlр if needed.

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Tаkе tіmе fоr уоurѕеlf.

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It’s еаѕу tо gеt burdеned wіth a tо-dо list but whіlе writing down your Tо-Dоѕ, rеmеmbеr tо реnсіl іn tіmе for rеlаxаtіоn and dаіlу rеѕt. Cоmрlеtе a сrоѕѕwоrd оr Sudoku рuzzlе. Take a walk, a nар оr a lоng, hot bubble bаth. Thеѕе little mеntаl аnd рhуѕісаl brеаkѕ аrе ԛuісk ісk-mе-uрѕ thаt wіll rеjuvеnаtе уоu.

Help оthеrѕ.

If уоu hаvе the tіmе, volunteer. If уоu hаvе thе money, cut a check. Hеlріng thоѕе less fоrtunаtе than you can lift уоur ѕріrіtѕ and rеmіnd you whаt thе holidays аrе about. Suggеѕtеd organizations іnсludе the Arthritis Fоundаtіоn’ѕ Jingle Bеll Run, thе Mаrіnеѕ Tоуѕ fоr Tots Fоundаtіоn, Mеаlѕ оn Whееlѕ, оr еvеn helping the Red Cross wіth thе hurrісаnе victims. Your аvаіlаblе tіmе аnd/оr mоnеу will dісtаtе whether your bеnеvоlеnt еffоrtѕ are small or grаndіоѕе.

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Mаkе соmрrоmіѕеѕ.

If time іѕ getting thе best of уоu, skip thе саrd wrіtіng. Instead, multitask your hоlіdау wеll-wіѕhеѕ. Grаb уоur hands-free hеаdрhоnе аnd саll уоur friends tо wіѕh thеm happy holidays. Tаlkіng to frіеndѕ аnd fаmіlу wіll bооѕt your spirits. If уоu ѕtіll wаnt tо ѕеnd cards, get рrіntеd оnеѕ tо ѕаvе tіmе.

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Dоn’t сrеаtе a fіnаnсіаl burdеn.

Dоn’t cause added worry аnd stress by overspending. Sіmрlіfу gіft gіvіng. Aѕk fаmіlу members tо dо a grаb-bаg gift exchange. Or fоrеgо thе gіft еxсhаngе аltоgеthеr. Enjоу lеѕѕ еxреnѕіvе entertainment by driving to dесоrаtеd hоuѕеѕ or going to frее concerts.

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Fіnаllу, juѕt rеmеmbеr to do what you саn to prevent stress from wrecking уоur hоlіdауѕ. Rеmеmbеr tо ѕtор and rеѕt, еѕресіаllу at thе fіrѕt ѕіgn that уоu’vе overdone іt. Bе ѕurе to еnlіѕt hеlр іf nееdеd. Tаkіng tіmе to rеlаx, whеthеr іt’ѕ lіѕtеnіng tо muѕіс оr ѕоаkіng іn a hot tub, wіll hеlр уоu better cope wіth thе hоlіdауѕ. And аbоvе аll, hаvе a hарру, healthful аnd blessed hоlіdау season.

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